30 days until the official start! Some of you know me well – and know that my dream is helping others succeed, no matter their dream. In particular, those in a disadvantaged position have challenges to overcome and may well be in the position I was in – what is a dream when you’re just trying to get by a day at a time? So what is your dream? Tell us your story!
Did you have a dream that you accomplished? Did you abandon a dream? Small or large – others can learn from you.
My dream when I was a single mom back in MS was to have enough money to walk into the corner store (SuperStop back then and there) to buy a coke without having to balance my checkbook first. DONE. I took the long, winding, dark path to get there, but done. I have more dreams and more plans. and I’m thinking of starting a resource site for dreaming and succeeding. Specific dreams would be addressed, such as applying for college/grad school, getting a promotion at work, etc. Right now – it’s still just a dream.
I don’t want to do what I think people need. I want to do what people need and that only comes from them…you.
It’s also fabulous that I landed in a system whose motto is Dare. Dream. Believe.
Oh my. When I started competing in pageants (April of last year), I did not envision this. Ms.North America Universal Elegance. I mean, I wanted to win, that’s why I started competing. I needed motivation to lose weight (down 35 pounds) and the appeal of a larger public forum to reach people was very enticing – I want to help others! But now, I am headed to London to compete for the global title. Or is it the Universal title given the pageant name?
Can you see me as Ms. Universal Elegance?
Kinda really cool. Seriously cool. Elegance means I’m over 45 and only compete against other women over 45 years old.
Do not get me wrong – the weight loss is not for vanity, it’s for health. Not all overweight people are unhealthy and not all skinny people are healthy. However, my weight was unhealthy and impacting my daily life. I am now off supposedly lifetime meds of plaquenil and methotrexate (for Lupus), building muscle, and frankly, able to walk down the boarding ramp to an airplane without assistance or pre-boarding time. Three years ago, that was not the case.
After the national competition, I came home and went off the healthy eating for a week – we’re talking whole, gluten free pies from Piefection, multiple servings of cheescake, and chocolate!! – then reality kicked in and I go back to healthy eating, which my body does so much better when I eat healthy. I am almost completely a non-processed food person.
So today, I have one month to go. Still working out. Still eating healthy. Still excited!